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and talked to each other. If the two jinns that met before the men could
have rapport with each other, then the two men would also become
friends. For this reason, we have certain idioms in the Türkmen
language such as, “His jinn could not get close,” or, “His jinn
did not like the other.”
I
am not talking about these national characteristics only because they
are interesting by nature. What I wish to say in particular is that in
this old line of thought, one sees clearly that friendship is a pure and
spiritual thing. For the jinns are not after any material benefits
whatsoever. They don’t have any special wishes either. They
established relations only on the basis of whether each one’s
“self” agreed to talk with the other. This means that real
friendship has nothing to do with material benefits. It is first of all
the harmony between souls, characteristics and ideas.
Therefore
there are different kinds of friends:
True
friends;
Friends
of gluttony;
Friends
of women;
Friends
of material values;
Friends
of professional posts.
Only
the first one is your real friend. All the rest are false and after
their own benefits from you.
Friendship
is a great concept. For it relieves one of spiritual loneliness. Since
friendship is an excellent matter of ethics, there are many beautiful
literary works on friends and friendship.
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